Relationship Counselling in Calgary

We understand that healthy relationships require intention, empathy, and effective communication. Our relationship counselling in Calgary supports couples, families, and even friends in working through challenges, strengthening connections, and building mutual understanding.

Understanding Relationship Dynamics

Generally speaking, relationships are complicated and present a unique set of challenges. From recurring conflicts, communication breakdowns to feeling distant or disconnected, we have all experienced the tension and the disunity that a struggling relationship can bring. Disagreements and differences of opinion will always happen, but how we communicate those differences can make a difference in the outcome.

Essentially, there are four levels of communication that can disrupt connection: the speaker’s intention, the words they choose, what the listener hears, and how the listener interprets what was said. As a result, communication can become distorted at any of these stages.

Our Approach to Relationship Counselling

We employ evidence-based methods tailored to the specific needs of each situation.

Depending on your particular situation, and the type of relationship, our goal is to help you all learn how to listen to understand instead of to respond, to feel heard and understood without feeling judged, and to validate others’ feelings as well as yours. 

For couples, we use the Gottman Method as a foundation for our work, but we also incorporate other therapeutic approaches such as Internal Family Systems (IFS), Transactional Analysis and Emotionally Focused Therapy. 

Our Goals:

Enhance Communication: Equip people with tools to express their thoughts and feelings openly and constructively.

Resolve Conflicts: Develop strategies to manage disagreements effectively, ensuring all parties involved feel heard and respected.

Strengthen Emotional Bonds: Foster empathy and appreciation, reinforcing the foundation of the relationship.

Our team of experienced therapists is dedicated to providing a safe and supportive environment for those trying to solve their relationship issues and to enhance their connections. We believe in the power of self-awareness and understanding as catalysts for meaningful long long-lasting change. By addressing both individual and shared experiences, we guide them toward a resolution and a more fulfilling relationship.

Why Choose Us for Relationship Therapy?

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Take the next steps

Starting the journey of relationship counselling or relationship therapy is a proactive step toward building a stronger, more resilient connection with your partner, family member or friends.
If you’re ready to explore how our relationship counselling services can benefit you, we invite you to contact us to schedule a session.

We are committed to helping couples and families create lasting, positive changes in their relationships.

Not sure yet…Book a free consultation with one of our therapists. 

Resources

Books on Relationships

Alt text: Book cover for Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love by Amir Levine, M.D., and Rachel S.F. Heller, M.A. White background with a red horseshoe magnet shaped into a heart at the top. Large red title "Attached." in serif font, black subtitle below. Top features a red banner with a quote from John Gray praising it as groundbreaking. Authors' names in red at the bottom. Amir Levine, M.D., and Rachel S.F. Heller, M.A.

We all love in different ways, and we want to be loved in a certain way…I know it sounds confusing, but once you understand your attachment styles and that of your partner, life and love get a lot easier.

Book cover for the New York Times bestseller The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel. Bright red background featuring a black matchbox with three blue-tipped matches sticking out. Large white serif title text on the matchbox, with "Rethinking Infidelity" in gold script. Top includes a quote from Alain de Botton. Author credited as the author of the international bestseller Mating in Captivity.

Modern love looks nothing like it used to be. Exploring desires, urges ideas, eroticism and your own personal way to look at and understand your sexuality. She covers it all.

Book cover for Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love by Dr. Sue Johnson. Teal background with large white serif title text, a thin red-brown rope knotted horizontally across the middle, and cream subtitle below. Top lime-green band reads "MORE THAN 1 MILLION COPIES SOLD." Author credited as developer of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy. Dr. Sue Johnson

We are hardwired for emotional connections. Sue Johnson explores how our patterns of relating to our caregivers are replicated with our significant other. The science of attachment plays a great role in our romantic lives.

Book cover for the New York Times bestseller The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John M. Gottman, Ph.D., and Nan Silver. White background with elegant black serif title text, two interlocking gold wedding rings forming the "o" in "Work," a green "Completely Revised and Updated" badge in the top left, and "OVER A MILLION COPIES SOLD" at the top. Subtitle reads "A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert." Author names appear on a lime-green band at the bottom.

He is a couples researcher by excellence with more than 30 years of research on marriage and family. This great guide is something you can use at home with your partner, and it has a companion workbook.

Book cover for the New York Times bestseller Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D. Revised and updated edition on a bright pink background, featuring a central red zipper partially unzipped as part of the title design. Includes a quote from Peggy Orenstein: "The best book I have ever read exploring the science of female sexuality. I am a total evangelist for Nagoski's work."

Women have been so wronged in so many ways, and our sexuality is not the exception. Emily challenges myths, and helps you understand yourself as a sexual being. You can also share these insights with your partner.